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fathermothergod by Lucia Greenhouse

fathermothergod

My Journey Out of Christian Science

by Lucia Greenhouse

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  • Aug 2012, 320 pages
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Lucia Ewing had what looked like an all-American childhood. She lived with her mother, father, sister, and brother in an affluent suburb of Minneapolis, where they enjoyed private schools, sleep-away camps, a country club membership, and skiing vacations. Surrounded by a tight-knit extended family, and doted upon by her parents, Lucia had no doubt she was loved and cared for. But when it came to accidents and illnesses, Lucia's parents didn't take their kids to the doctor's office - they prayed, and called a Christian Science practitioner.
 
fathermothergod is Lucia Greenhouse's story about growing up in Christian Science, in a house where you could not be sick, because you were perfect; where no medicine, even aspirin, was allowed. As a teenager, her visit to an ophthalmologist created a family crisis. She was a sophomore in college before she had her first annual physical. And in December 1985, when Lucia and her siblings, by then young adults, discovered that their mother was sick, they came face-to-face with the reality that they had few - if any - options to save her. Powerless as they watched their mother's agonizing suffering, Lucia and her siblings struggled with their own grief, anger, and confusion, facing scrutiny from the doctors to whom their parents finally allowed them to turn, and stinging rebuke from relatives who didn't share their parents' religious values. 
 
In this haunting, beautifully written book, Lucia pulls back the curtain on the Christian Science faith and chronicles its complicated legacy for her family.  At once an essentially American coming-of-age story and a glimpse into the practices of a religion few really understand, fathermothergod is an unflinching exploration of personal loss and the boundaries of family and faith.

First published in hardcover in August 2011

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"I really wanted to like this book. It taught me a lot about Christian Science and some of it was quite compelling. However, other parts dragged and/or repeated needlessly. Also, Greenhouse provides an amazing amount of detail about her extended family which is difficult to keep up with and I eventually ended up asking myself why I needed to know about them at all." - Stacey Rae Brownlie, BookBrowse


"[A] powerfully affecting memoir... Greenhouse's skill in rendering family relationships under the intersecting stresses of illness and conflicting beliefs make the book worthwhile.... Wrenchingly courageous." - Kirkus Reviews

"Through this memoir, readers will see how even those closest to us can remain a mystery." - Library Journal

"A touching book that puts a human face on Christian Science." - Booklist

"Greenhouse very weakly tries to resolve the tension between her own beliefs and the Christian Science teachings that she never embraced, and she never works out the anger and resentment she has toward her father for what she believes are his misguided and unloving actions toward her mother." - Publishers Weekly

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Fathermothergod
I read this memoir this weekend. This was a the author’s attempt to resolve and understand the Christian Science religion of her parents and her own beliefs. This difference in beliefs caused her to become estranged from her sister and the families of her parents, at times. I was deeply affected by her inability to tell the relatives of her parents about her mother’s illness, which turned out to be terminal. I felt that her father never tried to understand her beliefs or her need to share her mother’s illness with others. It appeared that her mother was a woman who was willing to do whatever her father desired and try to be happy.

I would recommend this book for a book club and feel that the club would could have meaningful discussions about women and their liberation; parents and their children; and an attempt to understand the Christian Science religion.

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Lucia Greenhouse a graduate of the Emma Willard School and Brown University, lives with her husband and four children in Westchester County, New York. She is the author of a memoir, fathermothergod.

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